Today, let's take a look at our character.
Imagine this with me:
You're on a game show. It's a dating game show. You are sitting behind a screen along with many other people (I will take it from a girl's perspective, but it can go in either direction). Many other girls are sitting behind that screen to the left and right of you. You're all wearing a number. No names are given. There is a man on the opposite side of the screen as you are (or in a guys case...a woman). He is your perfect match - the one you want for a boyfriend and ultimately a husband and companion. You know this because his character is read out to you. The showman goes through all the girls characteristics and then he gets to you. Number 18. He begins to read your character. You cringe at some of the things he says because you know it is true...but you're afraid it will turn the guy you want, with the "perfect" personality, away. "Number 18: She has _ hair, is _ years old, she is kind, loves to talk,..." then you hold your breath "She lies, listens to (bad) music, judges those she finds lesser, is proud of her talents, and loves glorifying herself. She wears a lot of makeup, very short and tight clothing, tends to have a lot of jealousy, is selfish; she doesn't like taking her time to help others; she is often in a rush; rarely does she spend time with the One who created her." You relax a little at the end, "She has many friends who look up to her, she smiles a lot with a grin that can capture anyones attention, and she knows right from wrong. She doesn't (or rarely) swears and goes to church every weekend." The rest of the characteristics of others are read. You overhear another lady's personality, "She is a Christian - not by name nor by voice, but by actions. She loves to take the time to call those who are sick; she participates at church quite frequently. She loves her family and is known for being kind to those who hurt her. She has a heart of gold. When she sees someone "lesser" than her she does not notice - she prays for them. She does not view herself as great, but as meek and not worthy. She does not lie, cheat, steal, swear, hate, nor is she one to be jealous or proud. She puts others before herself. She wears modest clothing to not draw unwanted attention to herself - her body is God's. Her makeup, if she does wear any, is suttle. People go to her for advice and encouragement. She is slow to anger and is honest in everything she does. She is God's daughter; she is perfect." Resentment builds in your heart as you realize you have lost the prize.
I realize we don't all have the same struggles and characteristics of Number 18, but we have many and in MOST cases, more. If God were to read out your life, personality, and character to those most important...would you be ashamed? Would God honestly say, "Well done thou good and faithful servant"?